What Couples are Saying about Lance
Lance, Kevin and I would like to thank you for
helping to make our day extra special. Your service was
exactly the perfect mix of humor and seriousness that
perfectly reflected our relationship. You helped to make
everything flow so easily and maintain the carefree
style we were looking for in our wedding.
Sincerely, Jessica & Kevin M.
Centreville, VA August 2008
Lance,
I can't even begin to thank-you for what you have done
for Jay and I. The ceremony was absolutely perfect for
us and it wouldn't have been that way without you. Jay,
my sister, my brother, and I all felt like we had known
you forever and that made it especially perfect.
Your sense of humor met with ours and we all had a great time. Your ideas
for pictures during and afterwards just blew me away and everyone that has
seen them have nothing but great things to say. Especially the pictures you
took, they came out wonderfully and those are the ones I will be framing for
our walls.
I could talk forever about how great the day was, how beautiful the FDR
memorial was, and how much I will remember it as the best day of my life. I
honestly believe that nobody else could have done what you have done for me
and you have my gratitude for that.
If anyone were to ask me who I recommend to officiate, I would tell them
all about you. And just think, in 5 years when we renew our vows in Key
West, you're going to get a phone call from me asking you if you are free!
The next time Jay and I come down to D.C. we would definitely like to take
you to dinner to thank-you again.
I just can't say thank-you enough. I hope you enjoyed the day as well,
even though it was as hot as the surface of the sun!!!
Thank-you again, Rebecca & Jay W.
Washington, DC July 2008
I want to thank you again for everything. You are the reason my
wedding was so perfect! The place was perfect, the harpist was
perfect. I feel so lucky to have found you. If you need anything
else from me as far as testimonials go, I'd be happy to contribute.
Best of luck to you in the future and THANK YOU!
Diana and Doug M.
Casanova, VA October 2009
Dear Lance, We just wanted to thank you for the
beautiful ceremony you conducted for us. We can't tell you how many compliments
we received from our guests about you. You made the
entire ceremony process fun and easy from beginning to
end. We will definitely be recommending you to anyone we
know who needs an officiant in the future. Thanks for
making the moments we will remember for the rest of our
lives so touching & special.
All our best, Allison & Steve
Hi Lance, We just want to let you know that you were wonderful!
When you followed the first officiant [dual ceremony] you came in
and said all the things that are important to us. It was fantastic
and even though I don't remember many details of the night
(hopefully the DVD will help me remember), I do remember your part
of the ceremony being exactly what I'd always dreamed of and to have
that come to life on our wedding day is priceless. Thank you so
much!!
Nazie & Geng P.
South Riding, BA
Thank you for making our wedding ceremony such a success. The
ceremony and vows were perfectly written and made our day exactly
what we had envisioned. You have an amazing voice that allows
everyone at an outdoor wedding to hear the readings.
You promised us the ceremony would flow smoothly and that is just what
you delivered. Thank you for your time and expertise. It was wonderful to
work with you.
Kristin & Rob A
Bristow, VA
Lance, You truly made out wedding a perfect affair! We were so
thrilled that you made the ceremony fit our personalities... that is
not too religious (Jewish and Christian) but with reflections of God
and the "higher power" added in just the right spots, fun and
spontaneous with laughter and witty comments, yet romantic and
sentimental with the right phrases to mark the occasion.
We were so glad that everyone was able to laugh at the little things that
went wrong (one of the flower girls cried going down the aisle) and not
dwell on the fact that it wasn't flawless... in fact the "little flaws" made
our ceremony and special day "PERFECT!"
We have received so many wonderful comments on the ceremony and you!
Everyone said that you made it the perfect setting for the two of us, and
that they were glad it was not "too serious" as to miss out on our unique
personalities. You made it unforgettable and fun at the same time. The video
had us all laughing hysterically, yet also reminiscing on the "perfect day!"
Thank you so much for everything!
Larry & Wende B
Boca Raton, FL
Even though we met once before the wedding, the ceremony
(although very humid) was fantastic! Our own siblings thought you
had known us for a long time - just goes to show how confidant you
are in your speaking abilities. I have no reservations recommending
Lance's services to anyone - we were not disappointed in the least!
Thank you again for a great ceremony!
Monica & Ace M
King George, VA
Thank you so much Lance, you were
wonderful. I loved the ceremony and how you incorporated the sand for us and
how calm and collected you were, it made us feel the same way. My parents
and ourselves were very pleased and I would recommend you to anyone in the
future.
Thanks again Lance and have a wonderful
rest of your week!!
Kiah & Brandon F.
Oak Island, NC
We just wanted to thank you so much for officiating our ceremony.
All of our guests really enjoyed how touching, yet informal it was.
Everything went so smoothly and we could not have pictured it being
any more wonderful (even with Todd saying "soy" instead of joy!).
We
will remember our wedding for the rest of our lives, so we are glad
we had someone like you (relaxed, funny/serious, etc.) to do it for
us. We also received the official copies in the mail Friday, so we
wanted to say thank you for that too. Keep up the good work, and we
hope all is well!!
Best Wishes,
Leslie and Todd S.
Manassas, VA
Thank you for the beautiful, fun and yes,
relaxing ceremony on the 3rd of July in Arlington, VA. This may not be the
first time that you're hearing this, but your confident calmness was exactly
what we needed after being 1/2 hour late to our own wedding! The limo driver
did not understand what we we saying so we almost walked! During the
ceremony, you were concise, without rushing and we really enjoyed your
soothing voice a mid an exhilarating and hectic day.
We didn't get a chance
to thank you right after the ceremony and right after the wedding day we
were at the beach, so sorry that we didn't give you instant feedback. Well
our feedback is that you were great and we are extremely glad that we chose
you to conduct our ceremony. We will definitely recommend you to anyone who
will need an officiant!
Thank you,
Natasha and Eugene
Arlington, VA
I want to thank you so much for your officiating services at our
May 19 2007 wedding at Belmont. You were exactly what we wanted -
professional and personable. We've gotten several compliments about
the ceremony, both for you and the wording (courtesy of your
website!). Drew and I appreciate your ability to put us at ease. I
was particularly nervous, but you helped alleviate that. Thanks
again for everything )including taking care of the license!)
You will be highly recommended!
Kati & Drew
Stafford, VA
Chris and I wanted to thank you for helping us to create a beautiful and
memorable wedding ceremony! I received so many compliments on choosing such
a charismatic and personable officiant so I wanted to pass the compliments
along to you! Thank you, again, for everything!
Love
Ellen & Chris K.
Annandale, VA
The service was absolutely
beautiful and it was all because of you. You really made it easier
up there for us to get through the vows when we were both in tears.
You made us laugh and spoke to us to help us along. That was
probably the scariest part because I thought I would mess up or
start crying.
I would definitely recommend your services to other couples.
Thank you very much for a beautiful wedding!
Kerri & Greg M.
Germantown, MD
We strongly recommend
Lance. He was very helpful in designing our ceremony, and performed
the casual and friendly ceremony that we wanted. The day of the
event he helped keep things moving smoothly and provided a valuable
channel of communication and calm that went above and beyond his
duties as the officiant. Kelley really appreciated his ability to
calm her nerves as the weather interfered with our outdoor wedding
and we scrambled to get things moved indoors.
Your friendly and personable attitude is what made us choose you.
When we met, you provided a lot of great suggestions that we would
not have thought about, for both the ceremony and the marriage
licensing process. We don't have any suggestions for improvement, we
saw nothing but excellence during our interactions.
Kelley and Jason W.
Fairfax, VA
...you did a wonderful job, were
very easy to work with and you really went the extra mile. I didn't
have the ceremony music in line and there was miscommunication with
the DJ, and you handled that for us--thanks so much! I will
definitely recommend you to all of my unmarried friends when their
time comes. All of my guests made comments on the ceremony, saying
that it was wonderful and it was too bad I didn't have a
videographer. They said they really thought you did a great job and
your words were beautiful.
You were great in all aspects as far as my new husband and I are
concerned and I don't know what you could do to improve. I am very
happy and couldn't have asked for anything more on your part. Thank
you so much!
Ivy & Mark F.
Manassas, VA
Hi Lance!
Just wanted to say thank you sooo much for the beautiful ceremony!
We had so much fun and all of our friends and family complimented on
how great of a job you did! And I want to thank you for working with
the petty officer at the base chapel for us with such ease....it
took a lot of stress off of myself and my mom! My mother told me you
took the time to light the candles and the votive candle for our
wedding and I really appreciate that! It was so great to have help
when you need it the most!
If any of my friends get married in the area I will definitely tell
them to go to your website! I couldn't have asked for anything
better! Well, Stephan and I are off to Tahiti for a couple of weeks!
Thanks again!
Tanner & Stephan :)
Quantico, VA
I would recommend you to anyone,
and particularly to those who don't want to be locked into the
confines of a traditional religious ceremony.
Originally I thought it was a major flaw that you didn't attend the
rehearsal, but you have such experience at handling the ceremony, I
have to agree that it turned out not to be necessary.
Ashley & Don C
Manassas, VA
"Oh my goodness" is a great way to
start out when you are referring to Lance. Having Lance as
part of our wedding was one of the best decisions I made. Now I am
sure most people are hesitant when it comes to setting things up via
the Internet, but rest assured Lance is top notch. By the end
of the ceremony there was not a dry eye in the house.
Thank you Lance for making my day that much more special.
Devin & Corinne C
Sterling, VA
I highly recommend Lance
to any couple getting married. Not only does he allows you to
personalize your wedding ceremony as little or as much as you like,
but he really makes the ceremony his own and puts a lot of feeling
into it.
He is serious where he needs to be
and humorous where he needs to be. Lance has an extremely
calming effect on those around him and really makes the ceremony run
smoothly. We had so many guest come to us afterwards and tell us how
wonderful he was.
For us, letting us do our vows the
way we were comfortable doing them was perfect. We loved having that
flexibility. We also loved that our ceremony was serious where it
needed to be, and fun where it needed to be.
Lance was really brilliant;
we were happy we chose him and thrilled with the outcome.
Also, his calming nature really
helped us keep it together! Thank you!
Deanna & Mike C
Warrenton, VA
We adore Lance and we did from
the moment we met him. He is just one of the kindest, most decent
people I know. He never questioned our wishes for the way we wanted
our ceremony to be. Instead, he guided us through the process and
made our wedding just about as perfect as I could've imagined it.
Lance is somebody who really loves people and obviously takes
great joy in being a part of the joining of two lives.
We got many compliments from guests
at our wedding on the ceremony and in particular Lance. He even
officiated for another wedding in my family a year later. He also
went out of his way to meet us at the airport the next day on our
way to the honeymoon because in my pre-wedding jitters, I had
forgotten to bring the marriage license to the ceremony for him to
sign. The best part in our story is that we are still friends with
him and his wife. You couldn't ask for a better officiant if you are
seeking personal, caring attention.
Thanks so much Lance!
Tim and Johanna S.
Sterling, VA
We liked the idea of meeting
somewhere comfortable around food; it helps open people up and get
them to talk a little about themselves, You took care of everything
and allowing you be as traditional or creative as you wanted at the
ceremony.
Your website is very thorough and a
great tool to use for putting a ceremony together
We received many compliments about how the ceremony was just the
right length, not "too stuffy" or "too serious"; and it was
wonderful of you to go around and chat with the guests before the
ceremony. I really like how you stood close behind us during the
vows so that it was almost undetectable that you were giving us the
lines to repeat.
The wedding was perfect to us.
Lisa and Bruno L.
Lorton, VA
You made myself and my husband feel
at ease before during and after the ceremony. You were very
professional but not too stiff. That's what we were looking for.
You handled the wedding party excellently as well, Making sure
everyone new what was going on and what to do even in case of
emergency! Thank You!
Angela and Hector
Washington, DC
Hi Lance!
I want to pow-wow with Tim in our response. You were so wonderful
and I want to be sure our comments reflect all the great memories we
have of our experience with you.
I want to ask you though - Tim and I recently found out we have been
blessed with a baby who is due in late June! (I know, that was
FAST!) We have been talking about baptism and we were wondering if
you perform them? We both feel that the ceremony should be a
thanksgiving of Life and a blessing of the baby - more uplifting
than traditional ceremonies .... We immediately thought of you.
Blessings!
Linda
Lance is a wonderful officiant. He
made our ceremony very personalized. I really liked the special
features you could add to your ceremony (e.g. Shakespearian Sonnets,
The Joining of the Children). He took a genuine interest in making
sure it included everything we wanted. He helps keep you focused and
relaxed during the actual event.
He has a very nice demeanor and is
very pleasant to be around. I would highly recommend Lance to any
couple as their officiant. [He's] Flexible, sincere, professional,
polished.
Kevin and Eileen H.
Reston, VA
You made our ceremony fun, relaxed
and full of laughter. It was the most fun we had ever had. Even the
guests commented on how much fun they had at the ceremony.
Funmi and Shade
Bowie, MD
We would strongly recommend you and
would tell people that you provide the right balance of seriousness
and lightness ...[you] know what to say and when and how to keep the
ceremony serious and light at the same time.
Michael and Jayne
Lorton, VA
We hope you received the card and
photo we sent you! Thank you again for the absolutely beautiful
ceremony you performed at our wedding! Our wedding was perfect...As
a wedding officiant, we feel your strengths come from within--you
are very relaxed and personable, ... and we can't thank you enough
for making it that way!
Christopher & Pama C.
Yes...I would definitely recommend
[Lance] to anyone I know that might be getting married. I felt
that you were very professional and laid back at the same time.
There was no time for stress and there was pure enjoyment. Your
personality also lightens up the event, especially what we were
looking for in our ceremony. I also really liked that there was no
formal rehearsal...
...I have to tell you, it was very
funny...and nice. My co-worker just got married and I was walking by
as she was showing pictures of her wedding and I said, "Oh, that's Lance Orndorff! he married us."
Lisa and Rudy M.
Ashburn, VA
I would recommend Lance
because he is extremely welcoming and non judgmental regarding
religion and inter faith marriages. He brings sense of humor into a
the most important part of the day t break some of the tension which
helped us relax and get through the vows.
He is very professional and had
resources on hand in times of on the spot needs. We loved his idea
of not running through the ceremony so the emotions of it on the day
of will be as is comes - genuine. This made for a truly heartfelt
ceremony for all.
He brings the audience into the
ceremony so all is involved in blessing and representing the bride
and groom. Lance made our day that much more special.
I believe that you have done this for some time and I can not see
any any areas of improvements that need to be made.
Shamon & Felicia N
Annandale, VA
I would definitely recommend you to
others. The main aspect that drew us to you is that you are very
flexible with how you perform ceremonies. You are willing to work
with the couple to find what works best for them. You're open to
different ceremony structures which allows the couple to be as
custom-oriented, traditional or original as they'd like. We chose to
write our own ceremony and vows and Lance did a great job. :-)
Lance's strengths lie in his adaptability and openness. He is
willing to work with you to make sure you get the ceremony that
you're looking for.
Kristal & Taylor R
Granger, Indiana
Lance was wonderful. He listened to
what we wanted, made helpful suggestions when we had questions, and
ultimately performed the ceremony in a thoughtful manner, with a
touch of humor.
Our guests commented that it was
very nice, and they enjoyed both the reverence for the ceremony and
the humor that personalized the event to us and our family and
friends. [You are] flexible, listen well, bring in humor and a
personal touch.
Steve & Shawn
Alexandria, VA
I would highly recommend
Lance to officiate your ceremony. No matter what your denomination,
he finds a beautiful way of incorporating words or rituals together
to form a beautiful ceremony that fits your personal needs. As
nervous as any couple would be on or before their wedding day, he
put our nerves at ease, ready to answer any questions or concerns we
had, as well as during the ceremony, with his calming nature.
I love this website. The information and links provided makes it
much easier for busy couples to take care of the details of their
ceremony. I also enjoyed seeing samples of ceremonies, as well as
the custom ceremony options... having it all there at the click of a
button is very convenient as well as calming.
I also loved the ceremony. You also
kept the ceremony from being a stressful and nerve-racking event,
but rather eased our nervousness with humor, and everyone loved it.
Kimmy & Chris G
Ashburn, VA
Lance is very personable,
compassionate, and understanding, not to mention prompt, organized,
and professional. He also has a great sense of humor and warmth. Our
wedding ceremony was so beautiful and intimate thanks to him.
Your strengths include addressing the guests and not just reading
from a book, making the ceremony personalized and comfortable. I
don't feel you need any improvements, we all know you forgot to ask
our guests to be seated, but no one minded. We were very happy to
have met you. Would you like to do our son's christening?
Heather & Michael R
Edgewood, MD
Lance administered a flawless
ceremony that was sincere and light at the same time. We feel
certain that he could meet the needs of any couple regardless of the
venue or size of the wedding. He conducted a traditional ceremony
that that was completely in sync with with our faith and desires. He
presented a demeanor that gave comfort to the wedding couple, and
his confidence in presentation gave us peace in knowing we had made
the right choice in selecting him.
Confident, sincere, to the point.
Brian & Amy H
Cypress, Texas
Hello ,
I just wanted to drop a line to thank you again for officiating over
our lovely wedding ceremony. Everything turned out just the way we
wanted and we couldn't thank you more. You were very patient with us
considering the ceremony did start 45min. late.
You were very
professional and I felt at ease after briefly speaking with you
before the start of the ceremony. I will definitely leave a positive
comment to the Knot.com where I initially found you. I love the fact
that we could tailor the ceremony specifically to the ceremony we
wanted and readings. Thank you again and we will have a happily ever
after thanks to your blessing.
Many thanks!
Joy B.
Memphis, TN
Thank you for the beautiful
ceremony :)
THANKS!!!!!!
Krystal W.
Sterling, VA
[Terry was responding to Michael as a
result of a
referral request],
Lance Orndorff performed our
wedding ceremony on January 15, 2005. He had
the challenge of helping us combine the traditions of both our religions (Judaism and Christianity) into a
meaningful and solemn ceremony. My husband and
I were drawn to Lance's openness and down-to-earth
demeanor. It helped ease our anxiety and allowed us to have
frank discussions about the elements of the ceremony that were important to us.
In addition, my mother had health
complications that made it impossible for her to attend the
ceremony. In order to make her a part of the ceremony,
we decided to phone my mom in via cellular phone so that she could
hear my husband and me say our vows. We called my mom at the beginning
of the ceremony and Lance held the phone so that she would
be able to hear everything clearly--without the fact that we were using a cellular phone becoming a focal point of the
ceremony. At one point the call dropped and my
mother phoned back. Lance gracefully answered
the phone and kept on going with the ceremony.
His flexibility
and
interjection of humor were what made our ceremony so wonderful. Both of our families, as well as our friends, have
commented about how special and meaningful our
ceremony was. I wouldn't change a thing.
Teresa K. W.
Washington, DC
[Karen was responding to Michael as a
result of a
referral request]:
My husband and I were just married in our home by
Lance this past New Year's Eve. During our interview with him (several months prior), he
suggested a semi-traditional Christian ceremony to suit us and our very
Christian families. It all sounded picture perfect.
However, two days before, we decided to do a very brief, if not somewhat fun ceremony.
Lance was flexible in accommodating us, but at the same time he always
maintained a professional presence (in the proper religious way). I'd say he
found the perfect blend of words to satisfy us, and our guest's expectations. Everyone enjoyed the ceremony, and they enjoyed meeting him.
I would recommend him to anyone for the following reasons: 1) he really
listens to couples, 2) he will do what you ask of him, and 3) he is very
reliable, even giving us "friendly reminders" when we needed to get back to
him.
If there is anything else you'd like to know to help you make your decision,
feel free to write back.
Karen & Ross R.
Arlington, VA
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